
Annabell was discharged from hospital on the 11th July and I have said how I got her home. It was good to have her home and I will continue to look after her and ensure that she gets her medication. She still sleeps a lot and has difficulty in standing and walking, but I help there where I can. She has a walker but she has difficulty in getting out of chairs and other places so I help there. Benji and I have suspended our 6am walk. Annabell is still sleeping then, unless she wakens me at 5am (as she sometimes does), then, since I know she is ok, Benji and I will go out close to our time.
I have always had this sort of comment that at times ” we are a mobile disaster looking for a place to happen” On Thursday and Friday it sort of happened. Thursday and I had to go into the town to register Benji. drove there, parked the car and within about ten minutes I was back at the car – only it refused to start. Called the RAA and they said they would attend as soon as they could. In the meantime, while I was waiting a young friend came over and asked if there was something wrong. I said yes, that the car wont start, so she went and got

her car, parked it next to mind and gave me a jump start. No problem. Thanked her kindly and drove home. I parked the car on the road since I didn’t want to block the carport in case I needed to get the other car out. Oh and I should say that I recalled the RAA and cancelled the callout before I left town. They thanked me and said that not many people do that – which I thought was sad, That’s how it was until very late in the afternoon when I started to notice how close other cars were passing my car, so I went out and the car started with no problems and I drove it into my driveway.
On the Friday I went out to move the car and it would not start. Finally called out the RAA and they came but they could not get the car started. The mechanic did a good examination and concluded that it was the starter motor. He then organized my car to be towed from the house to the repair shop.
I drove up to the repair shop and spoke to the boss. I explained what had happened and that the RAA suspected the starter motor. He said he would try and look at it today but if not, definitely Monday. Back home I attended to Annabell and made her something to eat. Shortly after that the phone rang. It was the mechanic, who informed me that my car was ready to be picked up. Took a taxi to the shop and the mechanic explained what had happened. I wont go into details but suffice to say that the starter motor was still almost as new, but the cable connecting to it had been damaged so that was changed and everything is good. AND, I had sufficient cash within my wallet to pay the bill. So, happiness all around!!
Annabell is still sleeping a lot but I don’t think that’s a bad thing. I no longer have to stay in one room. The servant type bell wasn’t really working so I went to the hardware shop and bought a doorbell. I set it up so that the sound is very different from the actual doorbell. She has the door part, I have the bell part – and that is working. She keeps her part with her and I have my part in my pocked or on the nightstand . Oh if you are interested, the music I have on my part of the system is ” Santa Clause is coming to town” Yes, I know – childish – but there you are :o)
So it sounds like things have “settled down” for you all for now. I’m glad to hear that!! You all need a break! I will continue to keep you all in my prayers and to send positive vibes.
Glad to hear your car trouble wasn’t as bad as originally suspected, too! With the price of everything still so ridiculously high, it’s a relief when something’s not as bad as we thought!!
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Yes things have settled down again but back to a different pattern and this is how it is going to be for some time yet. However, she is not as bad as she was and I am learning to cope with the changes. So many thanks for the prayers. Oh yes, the car was a real bonus !
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Glad the car issue was reasonably dealt with; dealing with mechanics always makes me queasy since I know next to nothing about cars and always feel vulnerable to the unscrupulous. Hoping the extra 💤 are somewhat restorative for Annabell. Take good care of yourself and of course dear sweet Benji.
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I called the post “Back to Normal” but really, it’s not normal – not the normal we enjoyed 6 moths ago. Everything has changed and the process now – I believe – is understanding the changes and learning to live with them. Yes, the car repair was a real bonus..
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May things level out then and not be too challenging. Thinking of you guys and hoping for the best.
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Glad things are a bit calmer now.
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Yes things have calmed down but returning to the ” normal” of yesterday is a wish, rather than a reality. Things have changed and we have to accept the changes – where we can – and learn to live and deal with them
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And best wishes as you do so x
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