I guess it will take me some time to get used to the fact that The Man is no longer here. I still wake up in the early hours of the morning expecting to hear him, but I have no doubt that will slowly fade in time. He was such a big part of my life, more so this past year and I miss him. I keep thinking about little things – sometimes I smile, sometimes I don’t. I am fine and taking things fairly easy I will continue on the heart medication for a few weeks after the Cardioversion and then slowly come off this and be pretty much back to normal. I expect to be down in Adelaide during this month but I will not be traveling nearly as much as I have done this last year or so. I think the chaos of the last 18 months is over and things will settle down. After the Easter Function I intend to cut back on a lot of things with the RFDS on the theory that I wish to assist, I do not intend to be a reluctant passenger on one of the aircraft making use of the services.
In mid-April I have to be in Adelaide for the West Terrace Trust meeting and then relax until the end of May. I will most probably drive down and stay overnight in my regular hotel. It is comfortable and I have ample room for my laptop and in the morning it is quiet enough
to allow me to get away and on the road home fairly early before there is much traffic through the city.
Sometimes parents just have to accept second place. No. 1 son came over early this evening. They have a big project on and he has been working all sorts of odd hour, so we have not seen much of him. Anyway, he came in, said hello to his mum, said hello to me then asked the question that indicated his “real” reason for the visit – “Where’s the Man”? I told him and he went outside. He stayed for a little while then came back inside. John Jnr was very fond of the Man and he misses him. Andrew is still up North and wont be back until sometime on Sunday. He was supposed to be back yesterday but he has had to stay on to supervise the commission of a new plant and he wont finish that until Saturday – all being well he should be home Sunday afternoon. I think his partner and the girls will be glad to see him. However, from what I can gather this will be his pattern until late June – a few days home then back up to Roxby Downs again.
Since my medical and health concerns – which seem to be sorted out – I have given a lot of thought to where I go from here, and what I do with this site. I have enjoyed all of this up to a point but it has concerned me that of all the people who purport to be followers only one commented on line on the The Man and one in a private email ( Thank you) – so two, out of how many? I also found that there are others – blogs by the page load from them – but not even so much as a “like” for me, which was somewhat disconcerting. I don’t intend to be a “stat” making up one of a nice set of numbers. The the departure of The Man has been a sort of catalyst: that and my “involvement” with local and Adelaide hospitals and the curtailing of much of my traveling, will mean that things change – they have to.
How do you think things should change? I would be interested in your comments.
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More pictures of Chienne! Oh sorry, was that out loud?
Was what out loud?? Never heard a thing :o)
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I’m glad your health issues are better.. It’s going to take a while before things seem normal again after losing the Man – they leave such a huge hole in our lives after they have gone! Hope you’re doing ok?
Thank you. I am well but Chienne is now causing concern. Overall, not too great – but we believe manageable.
I’m sorry about The Man – I left a comment on there but i think it may be in your spam folder… I hope things are manageable with Chienne – you need time to grieve for the man first!
I’m doing fine, getting back to doing things again. Chienne is not so good. She’s like a good looking car – bodywork is excellent – underneath, not so great, I have an appointment with the Vet on Monday and we will look at the options for her. An operation at her age is not an option and Chemo is out. However, her problems may well be manageable which will give her perhaps another year. At the moment she seems happy enough and we did go out for our walk this evening.
I’m really sorry – hope the tests are not as bad as you hope! As long as she’s happy!